Saturday, February 28, 2009
And Yet....
Not in light of a tragedy that reminds me what really IS important in life. Someone I love dearly just lost one of the most important people in her life. Her mother died very suddently. This young woman, who has just become a mother herself, is standing at the gates of a desolate looking world right now. I cannot imagine her pain, though I have lost enough people I have loved in my lifetime to have empathy for her. I wish with all my heart I could fly to Texas right now and embrace our sweet girl, surrounding her with love. I can't, and it hurts.
When those moments come upon us - the ones that move us to rapturous joy or knock us to our knees in grief - life is never in sharper focus. We see with a renewed perspective, a clearer eye, a stunned but focused mind. The news of this tragedy hitting my family just one hour ago has made me feel ridiculous for ever reacting to the negative comment in that past post as if it were actually important. It's not. None of this is.
People and relationships are important. Please, go thank someone, go hug someone. Call your mother and tell her you love her, even if you can't agree on anything at all in life. Because life is short, and life is real, and life is not forever.
Friday, February 27, 2009
Hey, 'Anonymous'......
I did ask for feedback, yes I did.
I asked a few questions and requested that my readers share their thoughts with me.
I forgot two things:
To say 'Play NICE, children'
To turn off the anonymous button.
So, I got two snarky comments from 'Anonymous'. Following some really good counsel, I've now removed them from this post; you can go to the original post to read one of them.
There are some things in the comment that I do know already, some that are new to consider. There are some answers to my questions, though a bit of it is based on incomplete information gained from a few web searches. But then, if that's what the perception is, I need to get busy. That I do know, or I wouldn't be asking, right?
It's just that overriding tone in some veiled (and not-so-veiled) comments there that just makes me stand up right here, right now, and say 'Hey, Anonymous - let's take this outside'. Because I put myself out there every damn day that I write on this blog or for a magazine or speak onstage at a show or work for hours to prepare for any one of those. I asked for my regular readers and friends to help me out for once - like I help them out all the time. I trust them and their opinions on these subjects because they get it. And someone hides behind 'Anonymous' and throws prettily-wrapped rocks at me. WONderful.
Now it's your turn:
DEAR Anonymous commenter, you made some good points and I actually do appreciate you taking time to comment. However, despite your protestations, it was harsh, and I wish I believed that you didn't mean it negatively. Perhaps if you had signed in and let your own identity be known, I may have felt differently.
I will take the opportunity to counter your 'identity crisis' comment with this: Part of what you found online (thanks for taking all that time to search out various sites and I don't mySpace or Twitter, BTW) is my personal information, which is all under my name - Deb Kennedy - including my Facebook Profile and a personal blog (which is not linked to this blog for exactly that reason). Nothing I am ashamed of, just personal instead of business. I use 'Deb Kennedy' and a personal photo there because I am consciously making a separation between the personal and the business sites. And I do have the right to have a personal identity that is separate from my professional one, even online.
Have you even read my professional profile on LinkedIN or this blog profile page or my Facebook Page? I use Debi Ward Kennedy as my professional name, when I speak, write, and consult. I was dubbed 'DivaDeb' by other people because of my byline of 'The Decorating & Display Diva', and so I use both. I am often introduced as "Debi Ward Kennedy, the Decorating & Display Diva...welcome, DivaDeb!" (It doesn't seem to be as confusing for them as it is for you.) I am a decorator, I am a display designer. This tagline helps to clarify that. Plus, I LIKE it. It's energetic and fun and animated and lively, like me and my stage 'persona', DivaDeb. It's dynamic and effective, like my work. It differentiates me from others, and believe me that is EXACTLY what I want. I am not like any other person doing what I do, nor do I want to be. And btw, my logo character is NOT a 'bubblehead Diva'. (Now how is that NOT supposed to be harsh?)
As for your comment about self-absorption, the original definition of 'Diva' is someone who excells at their craft, like an opera singer. It is not used as contemporary slang in this context, though apparently you want to see it that way. Tina Turner is a Diva. Barbra Streisand is a Diva. It's not always a bad thing. I am damned good at what I do, too.
'Anonymous', I don't know what your beef with me is, but I've had some similar comments here on this blog before...from 'Anonymous', amazingly enough, and it just makes me wonder: Why don't you ever sign your name? What don't you want us to know? All of the good insight you offered in your comment was rendered ineffective by the catiness of half a dozen sentences. When you come back, and I know you will, you'll find the 'Anonymous' comment option disabled. You'll have to come out into the open to throw those rocks. Have a nice day.
In any case, whether comments are positive or negative in intent, it's all food for thought - and I really appreciate that everyone thinks I am of enough value to offer their views, thoughts, and opinions on my blog. It means a lot to me as I make some crucial decisions that actually reach much farther than a website design. Heidi, Cindy, Debi, you have offered ideas and insight that I appreciate, and you have done so kindly and professionally. Thank you so much!
PS: this post was the POLITE version of my response, BTW. I could really have had a Diva Moment. ;0)
I Went to a Garden Party...
In any case, Debi is a wonderfully creative florist and event designer who has started a new business - 'Garden Party' - and she needed a blog and some marketing materials. So, I went to work, creating a custom graphics package - from blog background & banner to coordinating brochure & biz card - for her brand-new business.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Business - DIVAstyle!
by Monique Hayward
Her husband wants sex, the bank has denied her small business loan, creditors are after her house, her kid's big school play is tonight, and her top employee just resigned. One more straw and the camel's back surely will break. Welcome to Divas Doing Business: What the Guidebooks Don't Tell You About Being a Woman Entrepreneur, arming women business owners with the tools and firepower to tackle the unique situations that will test their resolve, strength, and spirit as they start and manage their businesses.
Monique has spoken of the difficulties of shopping a book proposal in today's economy - given the recession, publishers are quick to shut the door on first-time authors. Monique decided to bring the book to market herself - a truly entrepreneurial response! Monique also owns and operates Dessert Noir Café & Bar in Beaverton, Oregon (www.dessertnoir.com), which she opened in January 2005."
http://newsonwomen.typepad.com/news_on_women/2009/02/monique-hayword-shares-her-expertise-and-her-desserts.html
IMHO
Over the years, I have watched films like these (especially these) and thought to myself "We need a President who acts like this. One with integrity and class. Who stands up for all of us and what is right. Who doesn't let the bullies win."
In President Obama's first address to a joint session of Congress, he mentioned small businesses several times (I counted three, but there could be more). I cheered, applauded, and even stood up at one point - as did Congress, repeatedly. As he said, these are not Republican or Democratic issues - they are American issues. To quote that same film again, "We have serious problems and we need serious people to handle them". He's not a savior, and at this point they are still words...but there is action planned to back up those words. And that, in my opinion, is more than anyone else has stepped up to in quite some time.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Online vs. In-store Shopping
That would seemingly make it easy, but the added packaging adds a lot of waste and energy in shipping. What if you want it tomorrow? Air freight adds up to more energy costs as well. How big is the item? That weight and whether it gets packed alone make a difference. I recently accosted one of our green suppliers for additional packaging on an item. Unnecessary packaging is just as wasteful as the plastic bag at the grocery (worse though if you ship it). Most of this is common sense right?
If you are shopping local and moving something home without excess packaging, then that is a good decision too, right? Riding the bus or carpooling (anyone like to shop with friends?) are steps in the right direction. It's a lot to consider, but that is the green journey... Lots of choices and none of them perfect.
Friday, February 20, 2009
It's a Barbie World...???
1980's Dream House grows to a 1990's Dream (Mc)Mansion...and then surprisingly shrinks to a tiny apartment in the new millenium. (I've left out the myriad of ski lodges, beach cottages, home-made abodes, and assorted RV's, campers, vans, and the like.)
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
'Expert' Advice
As for those experts charging 10 to 50K to speak for an hour.... yeah, well, they need to realize that businesses are cutting budgets for consultants, events, and speakers, and if they truly want to make an impact - instead of just a buck - they need to adjust those fees so that those people who 'need and want them' can afford them. It's not about fleecing people who are experiencing hard times. Without the right attitude, I wonder just how long his business will remain 'recession-proof'?
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Planning Ahead
I didn't get the account after all...actually, no one who pitched it did. The company was sold the next week and new management took over. In any case, it was a really good exercise for me in planning ahead. I was able to get into creative mode, play with color, style, concepts, and themes, and design a campaign that would build from one season to the next. One whole year of themes, built around one central concept... which is what GJ does flawlessly, year after year.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Greener Kids
Friday, February 13, 2009
Garden Art That Doesn't Suck
Sunday, February 8, 2009
More Time!
Playing on the 'Time' theme from my last post, it's TIME to get visual again... I've shared a lot of biz info lately, but need to get back to my 'roots' (so to speak). Providing visual inspiration for your retail merchandising is always my favorite topic - and number one goal.
Today, let's look at the art of displaying antique & vintage items. It's not easy - for one, you usually only have one of every item to display. Then there's the fact that you often can't plan too far in advance as to what the display will contain, because you can't just order it from a showroom - you have to meticulously search out every product you sell. And then you have to combine things in a way that makes them all look better, fit a theme or tell a story, and appeal to shoppers.
On the plus side, no one else is EVER going to have these products and display them as you will. The most successful dealers display vintage items in vignettes and groupings that make them look stylish and relevant to decor trends. No longer do customers want to see a 'granny's attic' look when they walk into antique stores - they want to see ideas that will help them integrate antiques into modern homes and lifestyles. (Just as when shopping for brand new products, it's the value-added 'inspiration quotient' that can make the sale). Those funky vintage alarm clocks in the photo above are a perfect example of this.
There are a few people who excell at creating a signature style for their antique wares, and among them are Linda & Ludmil Marcov of Willow Nest. Their new store in Burton, Texas is, as expected and shown in photos on their blogsite, absolutely awe inspiring. Charming. Creative. Inspiring. Entertaining. Which are all things that retail should be!
The outside of their little shop. You can't ignore this. Heck, you can't resist this!!!
Sweet Linda and the inside of their little shop. This is a lousy photo but it is all soft whites and creams and pale pastels. I can imagine this on a hot Texas summer day - a complete oasis of calm & cool. She has created a mood, a place, a story that transports you to another time.
Linda also keeps a space in Round Top/Marburger, at Texas Rose Antiques. It's a metal barn, folks, and yet when you walk inside, you see this:
These look like pages from a magazine, don't they?!!! It's not due to my photographic skills, it's the marvelous merchandising of the dealers here. Owner Vikki is a darling gal who chatted with us about the area, the shows, the biz, and how all of her dealers work hard to present merchandise in a fresh new way - not the old 'musty crusty' jammed-full shelves of antique shops of old. (We also discussed how all of us crazy people in merchandising & antiques seem to be from California originally. I do find that pretty interesting.....)
These are but a few examples of people using creativity and style to display and sell antiques in various venues. Other stellar stylists of vintage goods are Deb Dusenberry of curious sofa, Kaari Meng of french general, and of course Rachel Ashwell of shabby chic (and fret not - Rachel will stay in business after the recent bankruptcy filing). Do check their web sites and blogs out, and take a look at how they have created an aesthetic for their own stores that fits their brand image. You can do this too!
Time, Time, Time...
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Truth, Lies, and Retail
(Mmmmn, no, sorry, you can't actually 'click to look inside!'....I snagged that photo from amazon). Today on AOL, there was a news blip about the tricks retailers ('them') play to lead the public ('us') to purchase more product. (Question: If 'we' are 'them', then are we also 'us'?) Click here to check it out.
The information contained in the article is based on findings by Martin Lindstrom in his new book, Buy*ology. Nice play on words and sounds there, did you catch that? Yes, his work is based on the basic biolologic responses of humans to external stimuli, and how those responses can be triggered intentionally to create a desired response.
What? Well, for example, one study in a wine shop led to the result that playing Italian music sold more Italian wines. Ditto for French music and French wine. Martin says it comes from a brain mechanism that equates what is heard with a suggestion... hear French music, grab a bottle of Bordeaux. The methodology equates to being the angel and devil sitting on every consumer's shoulders - and winning either way.
Martin is a Swedish 'brand futurist' and 'retail anthropologist', in the vein of retail author & expert Paco Underhill (he of 'Why We Buy: The Science of Shopping' and 'Call of the Mall', and who also wrote the forward to Martin's book), and divulges the findings from his unorthodox research on retail practices. What I'm trying to figure out is this: Did he write this book for retailers, to give them more tools with which to 'lead' the public into buying more, or - and the article on AOL seems to bear this out - is he promoting it to the public to underscore what a subversive lot retailers are, and what 'we' resort to to influence purchasing behavior? That move seems a little counter-intuitive to me. The subtitle 'The Truth and Lies of Why We Buy' doesn't really answer that question, either.
Martin's web site features a video of him talking about his work. It also offers you an opportunity to sign up for free newsletters and a chapter from the book. There is a wealth of useful information here for retailers, marketers, and those wishing to build their brand...the trick will be utilizing it without letting customers know you are playing the game. Especially those customers who read AOL.
Sunday, February 1, 2009
An Update on the CPSIA
" WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission voted unanimously (2-0) to issue a one year stay of enforcement for certain testing and certification requirements for manufacturers and importers of regulated products, including products intended for children 12 years old and younger. These requirements are part of the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act (CPSIA), which added certification and testing requirements for all products subject to CPSC standards or bans.
Significant to makers of children’s products, the vote by the Commission provides limited relief from the testing and certification requirements which go into effect on February 10, 2009 for new total lead content limits (600 ppm), phthalates limits for certain products (1000 ppm), and mandatory toy standards, among other things. Manufacturers and importers – large and small – of children’s products will not need to test or certify to these new requirements, but will need to meet the lead and phthalates limits, mandatory toy standards and other requirements.
The stay of enforcement provides some temporary, limited relief to the crafters, children’s garment manufacturers and toy makers who had been subject to the testing and certification required under the CPSIA. These businesses will not need to issue certificates based on testing of their products until additional decisions are issued by the Commission. However, all businesses, including, but not limited to, handmade toy and apparel makers, crafters and home-based small businesses, must still be sure that their products conform to all safety standards and similar requirements, including the lead and phthalates provisions of the CPSIA."
Visit this release from the CPSC website for full details.